A man walking along a Californian beach was deep in prayer. All of a sudden, he said out loud, "Lord, please grant me one wish". The sunny Californian sky clouded above his head and in a booming voice the Lord said, "because you have tried to be faithful to me in all ways, I shall grant you one wish". The man replied, "build a bridge to Hawaii so I can drive over whenever I want". The Lord said, "Your request is very materialistic. Think of the enormous challenges for that kind of undertaking.The supports required to reach the bottom of the Pacific, the concrete and steel needed to cover so many miles! I can do it, but it is very hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little more time to think of another wish, a wish that you think would honour and glorify me". So the man thought about it for a while, and finally said, "Lord, I wish that I could understand women. I want to know how they feel inside, what they're thinking when they give the silent treatment, why they cry, what they really mean when they say 'nothing!', and how I can make a woman truly happy". The Lord replies, "you want two lanes or four on that bridge?".