Paul called his friend Jake and told him that he recently met the woman of his dreams. Now what should he do? Jake, “Send her some flowers and on the card invite her for a home-cooked meal.” Paul liked the idea, so he invited the woman. The day after the meal Jake calls Paul and asks about the meal. Paul, “It was a flop idea.” Jake, “Didn’t the girl come to your house?” Paul, “She did, but she refused to cook!”