The Gay Man and the Support Group A gay man decided that he needed to join a support group to deal with the loss of his boyfriend. He goes, and meets 2 widows who suggest that he does something nice with his boyfriend's ashes. One of the widows says ""I took my Roger skydiving with me. It was the best thing I've ever done!"" The other widow then says ""Oh that's nothing. I took my husband's ashes on a cruise around the world."" So the gay guy thinks about what he could do, and soon comes up with the idea to add his boyfriend's ashes to a big pot of chili. The next week he returns to the meeting, and the 2 widows ask him what he did with the ashes. He says ""I put them in a big pot of chili. I figure that way he can tear my ass up one last time!""